Hey, sis! When is the last time you went on a real date? No, I don’t mean just going over his house and kicking it. I mean he called you, asked you to accompany him to dinner and a nice time. Or, do people even go on dates anymore?
The art of dating is slowly diminishing right before our eyes. Due to our generation accepting less and less to simply be with someone. Just like anything in life, you have set standards for yourself and never settle. So, why should you settle with love?
A man with business, a man with purpose, a man with identity is not going to hide behind a phone. He knows what he wants and is going to go after it. Just like a lion, the king of the jungle, when he has found his queen he will not stop until she is completely his.
It’s like oh you met him, you guys instantly clicked. He passed on the surface; fine, job, car and own place. Let’s look past that. What sets him apart? How is he pursuing you? How is he setting you apart from the rest? How is he showing that you are his queen? Is he really showing that he is invested in getting to know you, the real you?
Now a days people are so quick to say, “I don’t chase”. Let’s take a step back. Think about our parents, our grandparents, our great-grandparents. When a woman caught a man’s eye, he took time to find and impress her. Take her out, show her that he was serious about building and investing in each other’s growth. They didn’t have the time to hide behind a phone and just go in someone’s DMs. They took the shot and if they missed they just kept shooting, because she was worth it.
So, sis push your crown up. Remember your worth. Let that man pursue you!
Do you, sis!